Date night with a different dynamic

K and I went out for a ‘date night’ this last Friday. Normally we go out on a Saturday but, due to babysitting restraints it had to be Friday or not at all. We hadn’t been out together in almost a month so we were both looking forward to it. Friday passed in a blur and we still couldn’t decide what or where we wanted to go and made a last minute decision on a restaurant.

K and I decided during dinner that we liked to keep our evening going and headed up to our local club. We were both in the mood to spend some time around people in our age bracket in an environment that was fun and flirty. We’d never gone to the club on a Friday and were curious to see what the crowd was like. We mainly wanted to spend some sexy time together but weren’t about to say no to the possibility of a little FF play while the guys watched or a MFFM (in that order).

The crowd was much smaller than what we’ve seen on the weekends but it was also nice. Friday is one of the days where single males are allowed and we were both curious about that. We went in, got something to drink and sat down near the dance floor.

From what I could tell looking around there didn’t seem to be many single men. I was watching them because the topic comes up so much on the board that I was curious to see how the interaction went between couples and singles. I saw one man talking with a couple for a little while before joining another SM just outside the dance floor. A couple just down from us had their heads together. When I looked again the husband was returning from the bar area with a nice looking gentleman in tow that he sat between himself and his wife. At the moment I would have given a lot to know how that happened! A little while later the three of them disappeared into the play area. It was a much different dynamic with the mixture of SM and couples but not uncomfortable nor unpleasant.

As K and I were dancing, the fem of the couple next to us had the top of her dress down and was showing a rather nice pair of breasts. What caught my attention was that they were pierced and were glowing in the black lights. I was instantly intrigued! They left the dance floor and I took note of where they went and started talking to K about them. I told him I wanted to go and talk to them a little bit and ask about her piercing. As we approached where they were I noticed she also had a rather attractive back tattoo. For whatever reason these things attract me!

I approached her when I saw that there was a pause in their conversation and we started talking. I came to find out that she was actually a single female and was there with a couple of guys she’d met at Swingfest. I guess they’d all decided to get together and try out this club. As we were talking I found out that both guys had designs on her and neither really wanted to share. She wasn’t particularly pleased because the expectation was just for a good time together with no pressure for sex. We could that the SF was a lot of fun and we spent some time talking to all three of them. It eventually turned out to be just her and one of the guys but K and I didn’t care for him all that much. We got the impression that he was going to make sure something happened between the two of them and it made it hard to me to talk to her.

She flirted with us in the main area and in the play area and we exchanged emails by the end of the night. She seems interested so we’ll see if anything comes of it.

It was interesting when we got into the play area. There weren’t that many SM in the front, but in the back was another story. There were 4-5 SM’s in the back play area just hanging out. One or two were openly stroking themselves and it made me feel a little awkward. I can’t really explain why though. We went into a room and started with round 1 of the night. When we were finished we came back out and were surprised at how the room had filled up. It wasn’t so much that it was full but that it was primarily full of SM. I mean, a disproportionate number of SM to couples. I started to feel really self-conscious and tense while I was waiting for K to return from the men’s bathroom so we could shower together. I sorta felt like the sharks were circling. LOL

I’m sure that my avoidance of eye contact and body language might be considered signs of rudeness. In all honesty I was really nervous! I wasn’t worried about giving a polite no but I didn’t know what I’d do if some guy walked over and tried talking to me while stroking himself. My discomfort increased as one guy stood right next to me (and I’m sure would have tried talking if I’d have looked at him) while he was pumping away at his dick.

I beat a hasty retreat when K and I went to shower off. K told me that the SF and her friend were in another area and asked us to join them. We never did find them but took a little pause while we waited for a room to open up. While we were waiting one of the rooms opens up and out steps this older couple with another man right behind them. Maybe it was the fact that the SM with them was black and younger but the look on my face was probably priceless. We didn’t get the room they vacated….another couple beat us to it.

K and I were feeling naughty so we decided to take advantage of one of the voyeuristic rooms. The room has two way glass opening into two other rooms and small windows opening into the lounge area. There had been an older gentleman in that room watching the action in another room when he noticed us. He looked at us and nodded in the direction of the room. We thanked him as he left. K and I locked the door behind us and started kissing. In the other room a pair of couples were in the warm up stage and I left K to watch that while I started kissing down his body.

Right about then we notice that the older gentleman that had been where were had occupied the other room that looks in on ours. At first we weren’t sure how we felt about having a SM watching us. It’s one thing for a couple(s) but a solo player? We just didn’t know.

K sat on the end of the bed and this put us into a position that would make it more difficult for the SM to see. About this time K and I realized that he was being rather respectful. He’d turned out the light so that he could see us but we couldn’t see him and wasn’t pressed up against the glass or anything. K knew what I was up to and had the same thoughts. I started to think, if this guy has any imagination at all the fact that he knows that I’m sucking K and can’t really see should help to fire him up. We apparently attracted the attention of another SM and he wasn’t nearly as polite. Both K and I were thinking, “Enjoy the show because that’s all it’s going to be.”

Once we were comfortable with the older gentleman we didn’t give him a second thought until afterwards and we’d hoped he’d enjoyed. The one in the lounge area kept trying to open the door and once his rattles went unanswered started tapping. I didn’t pay much attention as a closed and locked door should be enough to indicate that we didn’t want an audience with us.

I kept up my attentions on K until I was ready to straddle him. We were in such a position to allow anyone who wanted to look on the other side of the window to get an eyeful. I was periodically looking in on the two couples and they were up to some really HOT stuff. I was okay with the SM audience(s) until the one by the door knocked on the window trying to get my attention. I don’t know what he was trying to accomplish because I was clearly busy but I was so annoyed that I thought about getting off K and telling him, “Hey, if I had wanted you to come in I’d have left the door open and you’re persistent rapping on the window is making it hard to get where I want to go!” I finally decided to just ignore it completely and put all my attention back onto K.

Every time we’d switch positions I’d spend some time sucking him before assuming the new position. K told me later that the woman on the other side of the window was watching us while she was riding one of the guys. He said that it really turned him on to think that they could be watching (whether they were or not we don’t know, got caught up in each other).

In the end we finished in such a way that would have left anyone with an “ohhhh that’s naughty” thought.

While we were laying there catching our breath someone smacked our door really hard and that just upset K. He used his big voice with a “WHAT?!” and that ended that.

What we came away with is this. We liked the smaller crowd but we aren’t sure how we feel about so many SM in the play area. We were almost approached, together, more than once but K was giving off the “not interested” vibe. K and I spoke afterward and we still don’t understand why a man would try to approach a couple stroking himself. A hard on we understand but the stoking thing, we just don’t get.

We liked being a little exhibitionist. Now, whether we’d ever invite men to watch us in the same room, probably not. We rather prefer being part of another couple(s) arousal or foreplay.

Even though we never spoke with the older man we respect him and his courtesy to us. Maybe voyeurism is his thing but we felt good about the way he handled himself.